... So, I stand by my decision to refer to Darlene by her maiden name in the OP. ...
And please do not turn this into a big issue. At the end of the day, this thread is not about Peter and Darlene. It is about their daughter.
CaroLiza_fan
I stand by my post expressing disagreement.
After this post, I will not make more of the issue. But I do consider it a case of "no good deed goes unpunished."
Because I was the one who discovered the name of "Darlene Wendt" for you, I did and do feel entitled to make my opinion known.
You of course are free to disagree with my opinion about the OP, but it was unfair for you to respond to me as if I were meddling in something that is none of my beeswax.
If Tanith and Charlie had a child named Marina

, what I would say is something like: "Marina is the daughter of Charlie White and the former Tanith Belbin, now known as Tanith White."
It was obvious to me all along that you were/are pointing out that Ashley's parents both were competitive skaters.
For me, that is not a good reason to not include Darlene's married name as well as her maiden name.
... It's like Tanith Belbin. As you made a big deal of pointing out at the time, she now uses her married name and even changed her Twitter address to reflect this. ...
As I believe you know:
Others on GS (not you) had made a "big deal" out of predicting that Tanith would not change her name.
So when she made clear within a few weeks of her marriage that she did change her name, I made a "big deal" of pointing it out.
Unfair of you not to give the full context.