This is just way too much of an intrusion into someone's personal life. Especially someone so young and obviously vulnerable. All of this should be deleted. All of this could be conjecture. The real story could prove embarrassing to us all. JMHO.
In the extremely tense environment that is Russian ice dancing it is so easy to see that Morozov took advantage of a vulnerable 17 year old. In his own words he would have done anything for that bronze medal. Yet all I hear is vitriol directed towards Lena. In some countries Morozov would be guilty of rape. Yet here we are discussing it so casually. What would possess a girl that young to be with someone like Morozov given his history? This should have been a red flag to many in her federation, that something was VERY, VERY wrong. Obviously she was exploited for her beauty and talent. I am not saying that she's faultless in all this, but this conversation just saddens me....I hope that if she splits up with Nikita that she really takes some time away from the sport for herself.
I agree that those are personal things and I think that even public person should have their private life private - if they want to.
You said that Lena is vulnerable and young…but she is not silly – she knows perfectly what will happen if a girl with fans around her sites will send pictures where she hugs or kisses some man. Especially if a man is her coach who could be her father looking at his age. The girl knows it for sure and she didn’t mind it. But it was her choice to make a public thing from her love romances.
(It is the same like some Hollywood couples, they are all the time complaining that jurnalists are behind them and are looking for their private things…and then they invite all journalists at their wedding).
It was also their – Lena and Nikita‘s choice to talk about their relationships publicly with journalists – it happened at least twice… they could refuse it but they didn’t.
I agree that people should respect their skater’s wish about private life, but obviously Lena’s wish is to say the whole world that she was with Nikita, then she was with Morozov…I guess that she had more boyfriends and probably some of them from show-business because the amount of pictures which exploded this season was enormous (and thanks to fact she was not the most successful skater or ice dancer in Russia, and in most of those pictures she was without Nikita…it was all very surprising). Even Tatiana Navka didn’t have such propaganda after her Olympic winning and she was two-time World and three-time European Champ those times, not less extractive than Lena. Lena also noticed in some interview that she often visites fashion shows…but it is not easy to get there, you need good contacts. An enormous number of dresses this season – at least eight for competive programs (plus gala costumes) are also surprising. But Lena’s boyfriend (ex-boyfriend) was never seen with her on pictures, so nobody talked about him and it was probably his choice and it is OK in my eyes, he wanted to keep his life private. But Nikita, Morozov, Lena herself…it is a different story.
I fully agree with you that Morozov shouldn’t agree with relationships with his too young student like Ando and Ilinykh. I am basically againts coach – student love romances, because I think that it is extremely hard to keep a professional approach in trainings. Many students who are in relationships with his/her coach are not respecting him/her than, so the overall cooperation is suffering…if a skater thinks that he/she knows everything better than his/her coach…than it is wrong. Coach is a mentor, Morozov as a boyfriend was not.
Lena’s mother always prefered Nikita over Morozov, not only because of age difference. But Lena herself never listened to anybody and if your daughter goes to you and says: “Mom, I can’t be without him, I love him!“ or “It is my life and my choice!“, no mom would resist too long against such arguments. Also what do you want to do, if your daughter spends a half season in US, while you are in Moscow? How can you influence any relationship of your daughter? By phone?
From Grand Prix Final 2012/13 (Lena’s mom sitting beside):
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As to Lena’s vulnerability…I don’t think it is a vulnerability who leads to screaming and crying on the ice during practise…understand, she was not screaming because they would hurt her…she was screaming because she wanted some changes in choreo. During English interviews Lena and Nikita talk and it sounds well, during Russian interviews it is almost always Lena (if she is in mood) who talks and even don’t allow Nikita to say something. She agreed with many pictures in a very provocative style while she was 17 years old only:
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Also this season she poses in quite provocative way (vulnerable and shy girls usually don’t do such postures):
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Lena loves to show her pictures with make-up on, she likes to make an experiments with make-up and with such make-up she looks like totally grown-up and experienced woman:
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Last time, she took very provocative dress on banquet at World Champs. One picture was already posted above (somebody else posted it). Why Lena herself posts pictures in this dress when it is visible that a dress does not cover the chest properly and one of her breast is almost visible…and she herself puts such pictures on her page even with than dress malfunction?
Plus all those kissing pictures and hugging pictures which she posts on her pages…
Is it a description of vulnerable and innocent girl? Is it herself who agrees with all of this things made publicly and later is (together with you) surprised that people talk about it?
My personal opinion is not important…but I see a girl who is not vulnerable at all, like I see Navka, Bobrova, Riazanova not being vulnerable at all. Why people think that Lena is vulnerable and other girls are not... I wonder why? Vulnerable girls are not those who want to be in a middle of attention, they are usually not such fashionists, they are not screaming at trainings, they are not posting such kind of pictures.
For example Bobrova also had an idea of showing herself in 2010:
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During past two years she also made more and less provocative photoshoots:
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And I never thought that Ekaterina would be vulnerable.
Maybe you think that Lena is vulnarable because she cries… let me introduce a world of crying women…it is the worst thing which can happen to your make-up…immediately all mascara (if not waterproof), all eye’s shadows, eye‘s lines are destroyed with your tears and it all creates some dark circles around your eyes. Why do you think that Natalie Pechalat had to remove her make-up before World Medal Ceremony? Why do you think that Bobrova was still cleaning her make-up under eyes with paper tissue after free dance at Olympics? Because those girls were really crying and it partly damaged their make-up. Also if you cry your face and especially eyes start to swell – you could see it in both Bobrova and especially Pechalat’s case.
Lena already cried many times, but her face and eyes were never swelled in kiss and cry corner or during post FD interview. And take a look at her (at Olympics, Europeans, NKH)... all those shots are taken after a moments when she was crying, sometimes a mimics of crying still remain, but look at make-up, especially under her eyes:
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No eye‘s make-up is damaged….strange? So, are those crying moments real or is it an acting attitude from a girl who wants more attention?
To finish this looong talk about vulnerability / private life / acting….I think that the main problem is that there is no official announcement about what is happening. We all know that there are problems between the couple and probably they (he) want to split. But nothing is offical. I suppose that mainly because of it people keep asking about Lena’s private life, because they want to understand what happened to Lena and Nikita and why did it happen. And because they all – Lena, Nikita, Morozov, Russian Federation are quit, so people came with their own opinions.
Bramweld, if Lena‘s life with Morozov would be only profesional, probably nobody would be asking me or other persons about what things she said and posted about her private life.
Most of skaters are not discussed about their private lifes, Lena always was….don’t you think that her life style (having a public relationships with her ice partner and then coach) and her behaviour (showing pictures and talk about Nikita in public) are the main reason why are people discussing it? I can hardly believe that she is the only skater having a relationship with her coach, I think that there are many skaters like that in this moment worldwide (I only hope they are older), but they simply keep it in a secret and don’t post pictures and don’t kiss him/her publicly – and nobody talks about them.
Overall I think that all Morozov, Nikita and Lena in any order made some mistakes in their professional relationship (starting with the fact that their relationship is not professional at all). And I think that it is wrong to punish Lena only, but I also think that it is not right to make a vulnerable, innocent angel from her. Also I don’t think that Morozov only or Nikita only are those “bad guys“. They all worked together for three years and it took them to this moment…