But the parents of said football team dont get told i only train your underaged child if you move away and are not living near her let alone in the same town! Hoe you can see nothing wrong with this . When alina herself admitted that when she was injured she wanted her mother there (like any normal child would want) and from what eteri says her mother staying away was a condition for her tot train alina which means that in such a situation where alina eanted her mother to be with her , her mother could do nothing because it would have broken eteris condition for training her? And you seriously dont see anything wrong eith this?
Eteri had her own conditions for her coaching you. Every coach is different.
Again, they could have refused but they didn’t. Alina turned out pretty well at the end of the day. Became the independent woman we see today.
Touch love is tough for a reason.
I actually needed that when I was younger looking back now.
We can go back and forth until eternity. Eteri is not for everyone, on or off the ice.
Everyone has their own values and codes and Eteri doesn’t tick some boxes for some people.
And she is so successful that there is a magnifying glass on her. But you need thick skin at that level.
But I’m not going to pretend to get outraged for the choices family members and skaters who aren’t related to me make. It’s between them and their coach.
And that’s not taking into account the fact that the skaters’ version of the story isn’t always the truth. It’s not just Eteri using the media for her benefit.
Bottom line, the parents don’t need to send their daughters to Eteri. That solves a lot of problems.
And if you castigate Eteri for not letting her see her mom, why don’t you castigate the parent that agreed to let her daughter go and didn’t take it upon herself to break the agreement. This works both ways I think.
Blaming Eteri is easy. But blaming a skaters parents (using the same criteria that’s applied to Eteri), doesn’t happen. Why?
Part of it is the attachment to the skater. Even Eteri’s biggest fans never called her perfect, but I’ve seen plenty of posts calling a skater perfect.
If you are a fan of a skater, it’s ok to criticize them too. The skater won’t stop talking to the fans.
Truth is the skaters use Eteri as a vehicle to win medals and get rich and famous. And when they think they don’t need her, they look elsewhere. And Eteri uses them to further her reputation and grow her school. It’s a 2 way mutually beneficial street. So I’m not accepting that only one side is wrong here.
Eteri sets the rules, the parents and skaters accept them or not. Then everyone has to live with the consequences of their decisions. It’s that simple.
And if Eteri one day becomes a liability, her bosses will replace her. It’s not that she had a job for life either.