Hmm yes, you're right. You and MKFSfan have convinced me that perhaps I should be happy that Michelle never won the OGM--and no wonder, she never tried as hard as Tara. And yet, I guess Michelle tried a little too hard, since she had to withdraw in 2006 due to injuries at an age younger than when Shizuka won her OGM.
This is a separate point on which we disagree...I view this theoretical CoP outcome as one of CoP's strengths. Sarah Hughes had sloppy technique and some underrotations in her jumps that rather ruined her LP performance, for me. I would have approved had Michelle or Irina won the Gold instead. (And I believe this is as far as being "mean" about any skater as I ever get.) I agree with both of you that the OGM would have hardly been Michelle's greatest accomplishment, anyway. And yet, even this non-Kwan-fan feels some bit of regret for her. You guys as fans may have other reasons to be "glad", I guess (I like Aranjuez much better than Tosca), but since that OGM meant so much to Kwan, I would have liked for her to have one, and she would have earned it plenty at the 2002 Oly's, the way I see it (if she beat out Irina). Just another drop in her ocean of accomplishments, but apparently one that would have meant a lot to her, personally.
What is definitely a stark contrast is the way Tara handled her career and life, and the way Michelle managed hers, so I agree with you's on that. Tara had every opportunity to go to school, and college, and get an education or pursue a number of careers aside from skating, but she didn't, and remained eclipsed by Michelle when she still could skate. On the other hand, Michelle's long skating career never got in the way of her getting a degree and what looks to be another promising career moving forward.
I know I say flippant or irreverent things about Michelle's skating (mostly to tickle her Ubers, teehee), but I truly do feel softly and admiringly towards her.