I didn't say that, I don't see it that way, and what I said wasn't a statement of philosophy, old fashioned or otherwise. Meagan co-owns the skating rink and school. If I perceive anything correctly about her, it's that she would never let Bruno carry the bulk of the work himself. It's a fact that he's an established coach with a great reputation, and that's a substantial asset. But I feel sure that she does everything she can to do her part, whether that's coaching-wise, or administratively, or managing relationships with clients, or something else. I probably should have said all that in my earlier post, but I was trying to keep the wordage reasonable.
I just think it was reality. As Eric said, from 2019 and forward, he was happy for the stability she'd earned and established. While at the same time his own situation felt more fluid, more transition-like and transitory and ambiguous. (And anyone who's worked freelance can surely relate to how that feels unstable and often scary.) Depending on their temperament, some people can sustain that state for longer than others. He said he welcomed the opportunity to explore what he could do, and I believe him, but it's a fact that his income depended on whether Meagan said yes. His work with Vanessa was an extension of that exploration.
Anyway, that's how I see it. Thanks for giving me the opportunity to clarify.