It's the latter. It seems that in Russia with the fall of Soviet Union many social norms have fallen apart as well. Many people don't see the point of getting any official validation of their marriage since nothing seems "official" anymore anyway. So people just live together without anything being official. And, if the guy decides to leave, there is pretty much nothing that can be done for, say, child support... What's worse, no one seems to thing there is anything wrong with the picture either :disapp: