Look, Korea has no monopoly on filial piety or conservative mores. I am a child of a conservative society married to someone from a megaconservative society. I understand that dynamic very well. And I think you are choosing to misunderstand what I am saying. I'm not saying Kim SHOULD defy them or not care. I am saying that what Kim does, Kim chooses to do. It's a choice, it's always a choice if you strip all the crap away. If she doesn't want to skate but chooses to skate to be a good Korean, then being a good Korean is more important to her than not skating. It's always a choice. No one said choices are easy or free. There are no victims. We all all agents of our destiny.You really have no idea on the importance and the nature of 'filial piety' to one's family, country, society, future generations that requires great degrees of selflessness and sacrifice in a Confucianism ingrained country like Korea? For her to tell herself not to care is practically denying herself of being a Korean.
(But hey, I am sure you will find some way of nitpicking the way I say thing instead of focusing on what I am trying to say. It has been your tactic of argument all along. Poking holes through semantics instead of trying to understand what the posters are trying to express. This is after all an international forum where English might not be everyone's first language.)