That's true.
I feel more sorry for the athlete, especially if s/he seems to be having a hard time moving on, which reminds me of Linda Fratianne. I read where she wasn't able to look at her silver medal that she won at the 1980 Olympics for years/decades later. It just seems so sad. Hopefully her personal life was more fulfilling.
I think it's all about having a positive attitude, and maybe something else to fall back on, but more than anything else just being happy with oneself, knowing you did your best. Great example is Sasha Cohen. She genuinely seems pleased with her silver medal. She had a few falls, but then picked herself up again & ended on a high note.
Then again times have changed, in the past it was all about the gold medal here in the States, but the public seems to be more accepting & embracing of those that have won silver instead of gold (personally I think Michelle Kwan had a lot to do with that & lead the path for Sasha Cohen to follow). This is a good thing. It allows the athlete to be proud of their achievement as well. Heck, just getting a medal should be an accomplishment in & of itself, be it Nationals, Worlds, or the Olympics.
And for those that have fallen, just remember Dan Jansen, his story is an inspiration for not just athletes alone.
I feel more sorry for the athlete, especially if s/he seems to be having a hard time moving on, which reminds me of Linda Fratianne. I read where she wasn't able to look at her silver medal that she won at the 1980 Olympics for years/decades later. It just seems so sad. Hopefully her personal life was more fulfilling.
I think it's all about having a positive attitude, and maybe something else to fall back on, but more than anything else just being happy with oneself, knowing you did your best. Great example is Sasha Cohen. She genuinely seems pleased with her silver medal. She had a few falls, but then picked herself up again & ended on a high note.
Then again times have changed, in the past it was all about the gold medal here in the States, but the public seems to be more accepting & embracing of those that have won silver instead of gold (personally I think Michelle Kwan had a lot to do with that & lead the path for Sasha Cohen to follow). This is a good thing. It allows the athlete to be proud of their achievement as well. Heck, just getting a medal should be an accomplishment in & of itself, be it Nationals, Worlds, or the Olympics.
And for those that have fallen, just remember Dan Jansen, his story is an inspiration for not just athletes alone.