- Joined
- Feb 27, 2014
Yulia separates public and personal, she won't be negative publicly. She never responded to the public rants of Averbukh or Eteri. Eteri's coaching changed with success, success she initially owed to Yulia. Eventually Yulia did not fit the mold of the new Eteri despite much effort and sacrifice. Yulia characterized Eteri's rink environment as very cruel, Urmanov said she came to him with a collosal psychological burden. She eventually sought medical attention in Israel, where she examined her experience from a more critical perspective than that of a child and adolescent skater. The revelations from her treatment changed her understanding of what she had been through, one manifestation being the academy that emphasizes sports psychology and innovations. Compare this to Eteri's doctrine of work, sacrifice and obedience. Eteri cannot accept Yulia without admitting shortcomings of her coaching method. There is nothing to bring Yulia and Eteri together, and a long and painful history to keep them apart.
Yulia is supported by perceptive friends and family, and with them has a found a raison d'etre. Make no mistake, this is a difficult transition for one who has been totally devoted to competitive skating. The picture of her standing pensively on the frozen Volga seems symbolic. https://www.instagram.com/p/Bf_f0Ezl7mN/?hl=en&taken-by=sunnylipnitskaya
Thank you for the details and amazing post. I am hoping that coach Eteri is changing a little bit and not as hard on her skaters now and she was when she had Yulia. To me medvedeva and Zagitova are lovely people and seem absolutely normal and they are coached by Eteri. So I hope she is changing her ways and is not as harsh with her students today as she was with Yulia 4 years ago.

