Totally agree about the need to teach kids (and many adults) about affirmative consent. Especially the boys.
And girls need to be taught how to be strong and protect themselves, and not just lie there quietly, hoping "he'll get the nonverbal message and stop".
Agree that girls need to be taught to defend themselves. But when something like this happens, especially for the first time and at a young age, your mind froze and you don't necessarily remember what to do during the first 5 to 10 minutes, no matter what you have been educated before. Confusion and fear usually take over and prevent you from thinking logically. I am not saying education is not useful, it is very useful. But the way Ashley reacted (just lying quietly and hoping) is totally normal.