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- Feb 24, 2012
I have a silly question And why does Gracie have to even skate? I mean if she wants to fine. But it really should be because she wants too and I mean she has to search deep within. We are not mind readers but as the TSL concluded the look on her face to start the program - she didn't want to be there. Has "society" pressured people like Gracie to thik they have to compete to be of value. You could tell Dave and Jonathon were being diplomatic about her prospects. We no know her spot at nationals 2019 was guranteed even if she pulled out - but that begs the question - why does Gracie even have to go to this Nationals? A lot of people say i have to have something but do the have to have it or do they simply want it or think they want it? I have to have that piece of cake. No not really it isn't life or death and once you get it sometimes you relaize it is overrated kind of lilke new ear's eve and the big party. I am not saying Gracie shouldn't be a competitive elite skater but she has accomplisehd so much. She doesn't need another medal. She probably could coach or do shows or join those cruise ships and perform There is more to life than competitive skating. I work with a lot of collegiate level atheltes and they often enjoy not being on the team so they can have a life.Gracie has accomplished so much more than most collegiate athletes. She has gone to the olympics and been part of the bronze medal winning team.. She has won medals and accolade and the admiration of many as we can tell in all this support. Has anyone really heard Gracie and what she really wants? Does she know what she want? Has she been given that time? Yes, we all know this will be a wonderful story for a book but this is a real person and a real life. I have great empathy for this skater. I believe she has huge potential and yes, one of the best overrall skaters of her time another emanual sandu or sasha cohen - such talent. Not all talent gets "fulfilled though. in the sence of world medals and titles.
the "fall from grace" - didnt she almost have it all - was very sad to watch; I hope in Gracie's times and terms we will see her determine her fate the Gracie Gold way regardless of money, medals and other competitors.
I think Dave and Jonathon also hinted we don't know the whole storyi and while they don't know for sure how it affects Gracie there are huge financial issues as they mentioend whith her dad not having a license to be a doctor; it is unknown if she has any endorsements or sponsors left. That too must be hard to have been once (and maybe again the it girl) the star skater from a family who loved and supported her emotonally and financially and now things are much harder.
find peace in whatever she does
the "fall from grace" - didnt she almost have it all - was very sad to watch; I hope in Gracie's times and terms we will see her determine her fate the Gracie Gold way regardless of money, medals and other competitors.
I think Dave and Jonathon also hinted we don't know the whole storyi and while they don't know for sure how it affects Gracie there are huge financial issues as they mentioend whith her dad not having a license to be a doctor; it is unknown if she has any endorsements or sponsors left. That too must be hard to have been once (and maybe again the it girl) the star skater from a family who loved and supported her emotonally and financially and now things are much harder.
find peace in whatever she does