Maybe it is a different for freestyle skaters, vs ice dancers and especially pairs skaters, who need to be lifted and maybe thrown by their partners.
Does anyone know if Synchro teams try to make sure almost everyone on the team are all about the size size and build? I know that has been done for some performance (land) dance teams.
I've been told a fair number of elite level skaters start out in Freestyle, but can't make the competitive grade, and are told to move to Pairs and/or Dance. One of my former coaches preferred Freestyle, but she wanted to be the best in the world, and was told she couldn't do that in Freestyle, so she moved to Pairs. Then she was told she couldn't be the best in the world in Pairs, so she moved to Ice Dance, perhaps her least favorite. In the end, she didn't manage to compete with the best in the world in Ice Dance either. When she didn't make it to the Olympics, she became depressed. She felt she had given up a lot of things to try to reach a standard she couldn't quite reach.
Perhaps, as with many elite female athletes, she had deliberately undernourished herself to delay the onset of maturity, to reduce height, weight, and the alterations to weight distribution (such as upper body weight gains that might reduce rotation speed in spins and jumps) that come with maturity. There are negative health side effects to doing that sort of thing. (Look up "female athletic triad".) And she was the coach I knew who had probably had weight reduction surgery of some type, so her partner could more easily lift her - which is also potentially very unhealthy.
But regardless, there may not be a single body type that works best for all figure skating disciplines. If you switch disciplines, the body type you have sought to achieve, might change. At least if you too seek to enter the highest levels of competition.
I would hope that at more recreational levels, you can find a reasonable compromise between what build works best for figure skating (or any other sports or activities you participate in), and what is healthiest for you personally. And that you can find a good balance between skating and the rest of what makes you happy in life.