Not that I have anything against that but poor Orser?? If he felt underpaid he could have asked for more money per hour, whats the use of now saying "I nly got 110$ per hour" , if not to advertise his club and coaching? and also his reputation was up more levels with Yuna, which top athlete did he have before Rippon or even before Yuna? and now he is a coach of the ladies OC, plus he did advertsments in Korea where he was gloryfied for being her coach. Not bad I d say.
Absolutely.
If this is aimed at me, then yes, it's just you. My past posts on Yu Na are few, I've never posted on Brian AFAIK and I never get involved in the board wars. So I'd appreciate your not stereotyping me.
No, the comment about "extreme predictability" was
not aimed at you. I already said you've not got anything against YuNa specifically (not that I can tell)...unlike some other posters...
Bottom line, Yu Na dumped the guy who led her to the OGM (and even more riches) in a cowardly way and called him a liar. Nothing he has said about her has been accusatory or below the belt.
Yes, but the way he talked about YuNa's mother could possibly cause her to stand up for Mom? And I'm sorry, but listing achievements like he did all the heavy-lifting and calling YuNa an "ingrate" is so wrong. It was a team: Orser the coach, YuNa the performer. There is absolutely no denying how incredibly supportive and helpful Orser must have been to YuNa, but she did her part, too. True gratitude requires these parts: the knowledge that Orser gave her things she could not supply for herself (check), the acknowledgement that what he gave was costly to him (check--he gave his time, devotion, effort, tutelage and heart that goes beyond the bill), the perception that he did it more for her than himself (questionable--I'd say it was a two-way street), and the perception that he did not take away from her or hurt her (also questionable, we do not know the full story, now do we?) If indeed he hurt her and made her unhappy, then listing the OGM and saying it's Orser's doing is narrow-minded and saying YuNa is ungrateful for that reason is being judgmental towards YuNa. There are more important things than medals.
Yeah, he could have walked away and didn't because he wasn't in it for the big bucks. That doesn't mean SHE wasn't cheap.
Then you are the one who is painting Orser in a bad light--because $$$ is just so important? I am almost certain that she offered and he refused. Money doesn't seem to be that big of an issue for YuNa, practically or the giving-away part. Up until this point, it was one of the foundations of their relationship. They trusted each other beyond the value of a paycheque. Again, you are being way too judgmental against YuNa in my opinion.
AND you're right, she should have had the guts to fire him face to face. Or even return his calls and emails.
Yes, I am disappointed about that.
I do find Brian's narrative much more impressive and convincing than Team Yu Na's. If it turns out to be false, I'll acknowledge my error.
I do not find it particularly impressive, except that it's clear to me that he still loves/respects YuNa and is very hurt. But then again, so does YuNa, and the fact that she stands up for her mother and says the mother did no wrong does cast a questionable light on some of Brian's words.
Like
bek said elsewhere in this thread, to me they are both decent people who may have had a misunderstanding.