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Trying To Get Into Pairs

ForestG0blin

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Hi, I'm Clay! I'm 16 (F) looking for a Pairs skating partner in Ut. I've been skating for 10 years, I did synchro for 5+ years, I'm 5'3", and 110 lbs. I have my Axle, I'm testing my Preliminary singles and dances in the next month, I'm on Novice MITF.
 
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One thing you might want to do is list yourself on Ice Partner Search:


I hope our more knowledgeable posters will offer some good advice!

And welcome to Golden Skate!
 
Hi, I'm Clay! I'm 16 (F) looking for a Pairs skating partner in Utah. I'm 110 lbs, working on Novice MITF, hoping to get my Preliminary dances and Preliminary Singles done in the next month. I'm also very close to landing my Axle and should get it in the next few months:)
Good luck in finding your partner !
 
Hi, I'm Clay! I'm 16 (F) looking for a Pairs skating partner in Utah. I'm 110 lbs, working on Novice MITF, hoping to get my Preliminary dances and Preliminary Singles done in the next month. I'm also very close to landing my Axle and should get it in the next few months:)
:wave2:Hi: As @dorispulaski says, the place to be looking for partners is the partner search site. However, you need to have more advanced singles skills before you try even beginner pairs, and since partners aren't easy to find, you may have to expand your search beyond Utah. I'd advise checking clubs near you for a coach who teaches pairs. Ask for an audition to see if he or she is willing to take you on as a pupil with a potential for pairs. If it's a male coach, he will usually teach the basic moves using himself as your partner. As you advance technically, if he feels you have potential, he may then recommend a try-out with male skaters he knows. It's a long process, though, and you're starting at an advanced age. The older skaters you read about moving into pairs are virtually all already senior-level singles skaters who started skating as small children.

Please go the coaching route, for your own safety! There are cases of two skaters who decide they're going to teach themselves pairs moves together from watching videos, neither of them having had professional coaching in exactly how these moves are done -- specific handgrips, for instance. This is incredibly dangerous, so please work on your singles moves first! Having all your double jumps would be good, and at least working on your double Axel. Then ask your singles coach for a recommendation to a pairs coach in your area.

You also might try getting into synchro skating where you can get a feel for a basic version of pairs moves, if you're small enough to be the one lifted, or spun in a two-handed death spiral. You give your weight at 110 lbs, but what is your height, in combination with your weight? I'm still skating pairs for fun at about the senior level years after retiring from competition, but my weight has remained much the same and I have small bones and am short. Good luck!
 
:wave2:Hi: As @dorispulaski says, the place to be looking for partners is the partner search site. However, you need to have more advanced singles skills before you try even beginner pairs, and since partners aren't easy to find, you may have to expand your search beyond Utah. I'd advise checking clubs near you for a coach who teaches pairs. Ask for an audition to see if he or she is willing to take you on as a pupil with a potential for pairs. If it's a male coach, he will usually teach the basic moves using himself as your partner. As you advance technically, if he feels you have potential, he may then recommend a try-out with male skaters he knows. It's a long process, though, and you're starting at an advanced age. The older skaters you read about moving into pairs are virtually all already senior-level singles skaters who started skating as small children.

Please go the coaching route, for your own safety! There are cases of two skaters who decide they're going to teach themselves pairs moves together from watching videos, neither of them having had professional coaching in exactly how these moves are done -- specific handgrips, for instance. This is incredibly dangerous, so please work on your singles moves first! Having all your double jumps would be good, and at least working on your double Axel. Then ask your singles coach for a recommendation to a pairs coach in your area.

You also might try getting into synchro skating where you can get a feel for a basic version of pairs moves, if you're small enough to be the one lifted, or spun in a two-handed death spiral. You give your weight at 110 lbs, but what is your height, in combination with your weight? I'm still skating pairs for fun at about the senior level years after retiring from competition, but my weight has remained much the same and I have small bones and am short. Good luck!
Thank you for the info! I did synchro for 5+ years, and I promise I would never teach myself pair moves. I've been skating for 10 years, I just haven't focused on jumps.
 
Thank you for the info! I did synchro for 5+ years, and I promise I would never teach myself pair moves. I've been skating for 10 years, I just haven't focused on jumps.
Pairs are all about jumps for the girl, with twists and throws added to the same individual and combination jumps the singles do. You have to have solid jump technique before you start to add the differences twists and throws make to the take-off, or you'll get confused and that's hazardous. Having secure doubles in all jumps would be essential to start with as a beginner pairs girl in your teens.

Take a look at icepartnersearch.com and you can see what skills and competitive experience you need to be able to offer to find a pairs partner, and where potential partners live. Like GS, it's international with contributors from all over the world.
 
Hi, I'm Clay! I'm 16 (F) looking for a Pairs skating partner in Ut. I've been skating for 10 years, I did synchro for 5+ years, I'm 5'3", and 110 lbs. I should get my axle in the next few months, I'm testing my Preliminary singles and dances in the next month, I'm on Novice MITF.
Good luck!!!!
 
Hi, I'm Clay! I'm 16 (F) looking for a Pairs skating partner in Ut. I've been skating for 10 years, I did synchro for 5+ years, I'm 5'3", and 110 lbs. I should get my axle in the next few months, I'm testing my Preliminary singles and dances in the next month, I'm on Novice MITF.
Curious where in Utah you skate? I lived there for a while and skating was such a fantastic deal there compared to other places I've lived! Sadly I didn't take as much advantage of that as I ought to have while I was there. I just wanted to chime in and wish you good luck - yes you'll want to really focus on jumps as much as you can, but at the same time, I don't think it's all that necessary as a prerequisite. I did some pairs skating for a little while without being able to do an axel yet, and the woman I was skating with was not as good at jumps. But she had done some basic pairs training with a coach, and that made skating together a joy as she knew how to follow cues and stay in sync - something that I think your synchro experience probably makes you very good at as well. I've also tried some ice dance with people who have no experience skating with others, and it's a lot more difficult so I think you've got a good head start in some ways. Once you find a partner, it will take time to get used to each other and learn the basics - it's not like you'll be trying the crazier stuff right away. Best of luck and do let us know if something works out!
 
Definitely make sure you concentrate on jumps. It's very important that you can hold your own in jumps as well as throws and your landing skills are going to come into play with that. Good luck!
 
ForestG0blin, I love that handle. :)

I'm not sure about Pairs, but in ice dance, a lot of skaters find partners through their coaches. And they audition potential partners with cooperation from both coaches. So should she try to find a coach who has good relations with other pairs coaches, and a good record finding partners for female students? How would she do that?

The Ice Partner search site has a lot more females than males. Most of them are very high level skaters. (Take a look. Search for people looking for Pairs partners in the United States.) Finding a male partner as a lady must be hard. There is only one pair skating male listed in the United States. Maybe males don't need to list themselves - they can pick and choose from the ladies who do.

There might now be a few same-gender Pairs teams. ISI explicitly says they can test; not sure about compete; US FigureSkating allows same gender couples to test or compete.

ISI also has "couples skating" which is distinct from Dance or Pairs skating. They too can be of the same gender.

But they might have to compete against other female-female pairs or couples. If there are any.

Should she attend skating camps and go to a variety of club sessions to try to meet potential partners?

Some rinks have bulletin boards where people can post ads. Maybe the o.p. could post an ad looking for a partner.
 
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