it's not mandatory... but the women choose to do it

it used to be mandatory.... the sport is anchored in very old tradition. Be thankful the women are now allowed to jump
fair enough
because it can be subjective.... i understood what you were after but then some of your choices confused me and thus, i went for atypical not necessarily, "less feminine"
got it... but the sport is very traditional and there are even points for elegance
sure but that's where there is confusion... because some of the programs listed only would have one of the 3 features... for instance (and IMHO)
Bonaly 4 season
Music= typical
Costume = she was wearing couture

maybe out of the box but very very feminine
Skating/Choreo = I would give it a checkmark here for atypical.
Tott ACDC
Music = arguable but fine, I could I give it a checkmark
Costume = same as above... it's not that special nowadays and certainly not when she did it... maybe 30 years ago...
Skating/Choreo = completely traditional...
So where is it so out of the box ? Because she's cool and we like her ?
there are more than one ways to do so... and I could give you examples from the two skaters above where this is the case too.
Okay.. but then, Loena is there to slay and her programs this year are definitely not what I think you are looking for
See, I don't like Richaud at all

haha
interesting about Kaori's Janet Jackson because JJ is definitely selling a certain genre of sensuality that is far from what I would think would fit your criteria
interesting...
I took the time to respond to this line by line... because it just shows how you can make your own list and all of this works for you but how at the same time, there are just too many variables/ too broad of a focus, to really come up with something that may make consensus.
I think your thread is interesting in this sense :
The sport is heavily anchored in tradition... why don't more women step out of the box?
In the end, I'd say, look at some of the French skaters... I tend to believe that some of them are less into playing the stereotypes... not all of them, and not always... but some... at times.