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From the article: At the same time, there is another athlete in the American federation who is accused of having contact with a minor.A Russian tabloid has named the athlete that assaulted her.
Probably has that information confused as well. There is nothing on SafeSport about it?From the article: At the same time, there is another athlete in the American federation who is accused of having contact with a minor.
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I post this here since Solene inspired her to speak up public:
Olivia Oliver just posted on Instagram about being SA 2 years ago in Canada, it seems this happen in the figure skating environment, she developed ED after this among other challenges. She also address a problem that "there is a lot of selected protection in the environment which I want to see eliminated"
Edit: Feel free to move this to another thread if this is not the right place
I read somewhere else that a Russian article said Destayov’s suspension was because he had contact with a minor, so it seems there is confusion in Russian reporting….maybe he has been suspended for that as well?Probably has that information confused as well. There is nothing on SafeSport about it?
This information was incorrect. The resource has apologised for it and replaced it with the one above.I read somewhere else that a Russian article said Destayov’s suspension was because he had contact with a minor, so it seems there is confusion in Russian reporting….maybe he has been suspended for that as well?

Ah thanks for clarifyingThis information was incorrect. The resource has apologised for it and replaced it with the one above.
Unfortunately, it doesn't seem like Solene has received the support she deserved behind closed doors
In her newest post, she has also revealed that she has been unable to skate since last Worlds due to the mental trauma she has endured
Because it's a business. Unlike alot of sports that rely on parent volunteers as coaches, especially at the lower levels, figure skating coaches are all in business for themselves. Bringing attention to such toxicity in their training group is bad for their bottom line. It's an unfortunate fact. I've seen coaches who seem like perfectly nice people turn a blind eye to very questionable and borderline criminal behaviour.This shit has gotten on for too long. Why are there so many coaches who are horrible people. The closed environment figure skatering operates in starts reminding me of the Catholic church and their scandals.
Parents are sending their kind to coaches who are known abusers but judges tend to give their skaters better scores. Parents are lashing out on children who say they don't want to train anymore or with certain coach. Parent are supporting weight loss and not well being of their children. What are we even talking about? And it's not only FS, this is problem in all disciplines where you have to start training in very young age. And so called "fans" deny to see it because abused children do things that adults aren't able to do or decide not to do. It will be success if both cases end with punishing the abusers, but I don't believe there will be permanent and significant change.Because it's a business. Unlike alot of sports that rely on parent volunteers as coaches, especially at the lower levels, figure skating coaches are all in business for themselves. Bringing attention to such toxicity in their training group is bad for their bottom line. It's an unfortunate fact. I've seen coaches who seem like perfectly nice people turn a blind eye to very questionable and borderline criminal behaviour.
There was a harness coach from one club that had a complaint filed against him by a minor skater. He was hired the week after by another club down the street, despite knowing he was being investigated. (The harness coach in question has since been suspended by Skate Canada). That club knowingly put their skaters in danger with a potential predator.
I’ve been a huge fan of IAM because I think they’ve done a lot for pushing ice dance forward in the way that Canton did in the early oughts. I’m also all for MIDA and Zanni’s camp giving IAM a run for their money because I think this will only benefit the sport, with different camps creating new ideas and competing to be the best.I don't know why, but these two last cases of Solene and Olivia have really hit me hard. I have been a fan of the sport for 26 years now, casaual at first, but the more involved I've become the more aware I am of the ugly side of sport....abuse, eating disorders, "golden boy" culture, politics etc. As I'm heading of to Nepela Memorial today it just occured to me that we talk about culture, about abuse from coaches, partners, about parents who close their eyes over borderline criminal behaviour only so their kid can be the next big thing, but as Karoltyna mentioned we barely talk about fans being part of the problem too.
When the Sorensen ban came in and IAM was mentioned in that connection, there was immediately flock of fans who brushed it off as it happened way before he came to IAM. Yet, IAM chose to do nothing until the ban, now we have two more recent cases tied to Montreal, we have confirmation from Gabrielle and Solene about the lack of support from their coaches. Don't get me wrong I'm not saying this is IAM issue only, but still the school is still glorified by fans and ISU, the judges continue to give the skaters boost in scores for no reason other just because they are part of the training group and it just leaves bitter taste in my mouth, because something has to change. The sport just can't go on like this anymore. The predators have to be gone and I believe we as fans should be part of the change. I really hope both Solene and Olivia will get justice, that the people who assaulted them will receive a harsh penalty and ban from the sport.
Let's just be hopeful that these cases will bring a better awareness everywhere, not just in sport. Coaches are probably not well equipped to offer support in such cases. I have no idea what I would do if one of my kids came up to me with and confided they had been abused. I am not a psychologist, I am not the police, I am not their parent, I am not even their friend, I see them a few hours a week and I care for them immensely, but I don't feel I'd have the right words, the right tools to give support. Perhaps that is also why skaters do not bring it up to coaches or why coaches don't seem to be doing more ???Sorry that was long! I’m just a very disappointed figure skating fan today too.