That's how I am/was. I want to be around the best people, even if I am the worst in the group. Because I know that no matter the group I will never be the worst for long (second worst maybe, but not THE worst!! lol). I never understood these skaters who want to be the sole Queen of the Ice at their rink, where they are the top and have no competitors stealing their thunder. I guess some people need that kind of coddling, reassurance, but I think it is weak. How are you going to maximize your potential if all you're told is how wonderful you are? I'm really tough on myself, and I am aware of all my flaws/faults real or imagined. I wouldn't want to have to tell people at the rink to shove it and stop lying to me if they are just laying it on thick and kissing up to me. I don't do flattery. Especially when it's unwarranted. Doesn't work for me. Tell me what I'm doing WRONG, please. I already know what I'm doing right, you know?
It appears Aliona needs the coddling and being the sole "star". She tried it for a year with Plush, but it didn't work. I'm glad she's going back to Eteri. She was the number one skater in the world a year ago. She needs to rediscover her magic with Eteri that got her to the top. All is not lost. I just hope she regains her health quickly. Who knows, maybe the whole health situation was exacerbated by the stress of the AOP fiasco and once she's back 'home' her health will remarkably return.