That's not what I'm doing. I take the example of so many skaters who say they focus on what they can control: their skating, their performances. And they know they don't control what the judges do, so they try to let go of that.
I can't control what the judges do, whether it's political or what. What I can do is focus on the skaters and the kinds of performances that I love; and try to support my darlin' favorites, and all the athletes, by encouraging and appreciating what they do and, importantly, how they do it.
That's wonderful
@skylark. It has been my hope to be able to ignore the judging, but I have a hard time doing that.
For the skaters, quite clearly they learn from an early age to buck-up and grin and bear it. Of course, they know they don't have any agency whatsoever, except over themselves, their own training and their own performances. They are so young and innocent when they enter the sport, and often just live in a bubble of training and traveling and performing. That's why so many have a hard time when their careers are coming to an end. I think there's a lot more awareness these days, and the global culture maybe breaks into their bubble a little. But there's a bit of naivete among skaters, which isn't surprising. They have to be focused on what they can learn from the scoring even though it often isn't fair (granted, some judges try to be fair).
For anyone to feel like there isn't political bias, there absolutely is. I just want to see more fairness and less politics when there is increasingly such depth in pairs. I guess I will sadly continue to be disappointed. I think M/K were over-scored in the sp. They skated well, but they brought back their same programs in order to maintain consistency. Not a bad strategy, and they enjoy their programs. Still, they had a couple of minor miscues in the sp which were given high GOE, and I can't go along with that. Some of their fans were even complaining M/K should have been scored higher in the sp, which is completely unreasonable. The score was generous enough. C/J should have scored closer to M/K in the sp, or M/K should have been more 69 to 70, not 72. Both K/F and L/O were not given their due GOE and PCS marks in the sp either.
Overall, I think that the final placements outcome was the one desired by TPTB, though it was unexpected by the judges for B/K to falter as much as they did in the fp. B/K shouldn't have been so highly rated in the sp with a mistake -- B/K shouldn't have made the podium.
Of course, skaters can often control their own destiny, by skating their best without mistakes, and tripping up the political scoring to a degree. But the judges have a lot of control over manipulating PCS. B/K are still considered 75+ worthy regardless of errors, and it's obvious that M/K are being pushed up in the marks (from 64.37 at 2021 Worlds to suddenly low 70s range -- no in-between passage) regardless of small errors. I can see that most fans are very happy and don't care because they like M/K. If the scoring had been fair, M/K would not have had such a high scoring advantage in the sp. M/K deserved to be in third after the sp, but not with that high a score over U.S. teams.
I don't see a problem btw, with trying to enjoy the wonderful aspects of each discipline, so that's not a criticism. I enjoy what I can too, but so many things are disappointing these days.