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- Dec 4, 2004
ITA. My last two surgeries were successful but there are unintended consequences that i wont go into so I dont gross people out. And one wasnt 100 percent successful but I can still live the rest of my life with what's left and I am glad I had them.I don't have an experience with knee surgery, but have had the misfortune of having 3 surgeries in the past 15 years for 3 totally unrelated conditions. My best advice to you is to realize that little things are going to go wrong. Untenable treatment schedules, sitting for hours in a waiting room because someone forgot you, sent to the wrong part of the hospital for a test, day surgery done so late in the day that you don't meet criteria for leaving hospital before day surgery staff needs to go home, etc., etc.
Sometimes you have to advocate for yourself (ie remind them you're there) and sometimes you just need to roll with the punches (because I live close to the hospital, they sent me home when they technically shouldn't have, which was totally the right decision). It's best to realize that stuff happens and not to get too upset by the inevitable bumps along the way. The final result can still be fine despite personal and "system" setbacks.