BronzeisGolden said:
Oh, someone please finish off this nearly-dead horse that is the Kwans vs. the anti-Kwans debate! I will give somebody an appropriate tool to drive in the death nail! There is no need for the sarcasm or the veiled mud-slinging. I'm glad that everyone seems genuinely pleased to see her back on the ice, whether they like her or not.
Oh, Bronzey and others-- NYMKFan, Red Dog, Heyang, and FlowJo (what a nice post--thanks!) come to mind--have been on the front lines with your rational, understanding, and accurate posts in trying to show that one can be a super Kwan fan, or not, yet respect others' feelings that Michelle doesn't ring everybody's bell the loudest; that for some, she doesn't ring their bell at all; and for a few, they use their bell to ring out, "I hate Kwan!"
I think it's safe to say that the vast majority of posters are enormously annoyed by the Kwan Haters. But the forums do have freedom of opinion and, with certain limitations, freedom of speech. Thus Kwan Haters have the right to make themselves look like a$$es.
But I think the biggest problem is the middle group because they are the largest. They don't write "hate" posts but have endless endurance in writing posts that tell others how wrong they are for not loving Kwan. I don't mean the joke posts, like Mathman's; I mean the, "If you can't see how great Michelle is then you just don't understand skating."
Of course many of the Non-Kwan Fans are far from innocent. They have often been egregious in their responses, escalating their attacks on "middle" Kwan fans rather than just saying something like "Whether or not I understand skating is of no consequence. I'm entitled to like the skaters I like and dislike the ones I dislike. I should say their skating, because with few exceptions, I couldn't care less about their personalities."
I'm not trying to tell people what to say. The above is just an example and probably a poorly written one at that, LOL.
Unfortunately, no matter how many posters such as you, NYMKFan, Red Dog, and FlowJo--please forgive me, other posters who post like those named above for not remembering your names, but I do know and respect very much who you are--I'm afraid Red Dog is right when he says:
Red Dog said:
...I wish Kwans and non-Kwans could "live" here in peace without all this doubt and resentment waning in the middle. I tried in vain to enable the two parties to come to some sort of agreement, but seems we'd just rather bicker, lowball and slight. Too bad
Just wanted to say I know many posters appreciate all Rational Kwan Fans.

Personally, I try to emulate Bronzey's, NYMKFan's, Red Dog's, and now will look for FlowJo's way of dealing with the Kwan Fan vs. Non-Kwan Fan "situation." I also hope you all don't give up, even if it is futile in terms of making peace. OTOH, IMO, class is never futile in affecting the "soul" of a forum.
Rgirl