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I think this season's roller coaster has humbled Patrick. Perhaps his deficiency in "common sense" is more due to overblown expectations rather than outright arrogance. He had always been the one with that special talent, and after winning Worlds and nearly winning the Olympics, he (and everyone else) probably expected that the comeback would be much easier than it's been. Besides, he's lived in the privileged, rarefied bubble of an elite athlete. I'm glad he has Kathy to keep him grounded. The challenges he's faced this year have hopefully made him listen more to her advice, as she has proven to have good foresight. She was the one who had advised him to put a 4S in his program before he thought he needed to, and now he intends to do it.
I don't knock Patrick for "his deficiency in common sense". Common sense keeps one safe and nice but safe and nice is not what makes success and super achievements. Great inventors like the Wright Brothers and Edison didn't listen to people of common sense, neither did great entrepreneurs like Bill Gates, Richard Branson, and Walt Disney. Common sense says it is a waste of one's life and family resources to train for figure skating but passion keeps the talented youngsters and their family sacrificing for the extremely elusive glory and rewards. Call it arrogance or super confidence, the overachievers believe in themselves and feel entitled to success and to win. Common sense is for the common people. That's what I meant when I wrote about the special common sense of the successful and hope they let us in a little because I've been studying and digging for the special sense common to them.
I don't want Patrick to trade self confidence for limiting common sense. What he needs is to balance the desire, the confidence, and the passion with detachment of outcome, and enjoyment of the process. It is well said that the sooner one can be happy without the desired, the sooner one will have the desired. Or, in Patrick's case, if he can't be happy without the OGM, then he wouldn't be happy with the OGM. He wouldn't have the titles and the medals without the desire and the confidence but the titles and the medals are to add to his joy and gratitude rather than taking away his happiness if he doesn't have them. He courts misery if he attaches his happiness to the OGM, or the 2016 Worlds title. Attachments are the cause of suffering, said Budha. Acceptance precedes happiness and detachment precedes success. Ah, the secret of success is paradox, not common sense.
Of course, if all else fails, VB can just scold him.![]()
I don't believe in scolding. I believe in mind power, in inspiration, in insights and in epiphanies, the Ah Ha moments, and Eureka. May Patrick have more of these, on his own or guided.
But in reply to your previous reply about paranoia, I prefer to call it preparedness, and it's only meant to apply to Patrick's work as an athlete, not his entire life. Since energy and time are finite, he could look at the top 3-5 factors that impacted his performances the most this season and prepare for those (including bad ice).
He can't afford to be prepared for all possibilities. He has to be positive and focus on his goals and doing his best. Rehearsing negative scenario will erode his energy and mental strength. Should he be prepared for all possible natural and man made disasters? Protocol and common sense, and I do believe he has common sense, take care of most unexpected situations. He will evacuate if the fire alarm goes off, he will duck if an over head camera is falling on him, he will stop if his skate breaks but preparedness means this should not happen, he will talk to the one in charge if he finds the ice condition inconsistent in practice, he will just have to wing it if a judge has a heart attack, or he can't hear his music due to load cheering, or someone streaks on ice while he skates ........... and there are millions of remotely possible crazy scenarios. As to asking for ice resurfacing just for him, I don't know the protocol but it would probably backfire on him in more ways than one. But speaking about it alerts event organizers and may be preventive in the future.
Anyway, for now I hope he enjoys his trip to Japan and his ice shows. I expect to see a lot of happy photos with fans.![]()
Amen.
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so that next time, maybe we don't have to play there or a better piano is used)... 


