Back to the Shibutanis. I wonder what their coaches role is in all of this.
Like some other posters, I couldn't hear the video well. But I did get the impression that Alex said something about spending the whole drive to the rink explaining to her where (in his opinion) she was going wrong, and he expected her to snap to it and do what he told her. When she didn't, he became angry and abusive.
I don't think it is normal or healthy for a partner to be diagnosing problems and correcting their partner. That should be the coach's job. At the very least, it doesn't seem to be working in this case. It doesn't seem to occur to Alex that his diagnosis or explanation could be flawed, which is why they aren't producing the desired results.
I certainly hope that wasn't the coach just standing and watching this all unfold. My guess (pure speculation) is that they are struggling and have scheduled extra practice sessions to address their problems, but their coach is unavailable. That would explain the "change of schedule" that led to the streaming being on, though it is usually off when they are practicing.
If that is the case, then I think it's time for the coach to step in and assert strongly that SHE is the coach, and that Alex's efforts at coaching are misplaced and counterproductive. They should NOT be practicing together without suitable supervision.
And I also think that Alex Shibutani should NEVER teach or coach skating or any other subject. He has neither the skill nor the temperament for it.
Like some other posters, I couldn't hear the video well. But I did get the impression that Alex said something about spending the whole drive to the rink explaining to her where (in his opinion) she was going wrong, and he expected her to snap to it and do what he told her. When she didn't, he became angry and abusive.
I don't think it is normal or healthy for a partner to be diagnosing problems and correcting their partner. That should be the coach's job. At the very least, it doesn't seem to be working in this case. It doesn't seem to occur to Alex that his diagnosis or explanation could be flawed, which is why they aren't producing the desired results.
I certainly hope that wasn't the coach just standing and watching this all unfold. My guess (pure speculation) is that they are struggling and have scheduled extra practice sessions to address their problems, but their coach is unavailable. That would explain the "change of schedule" that led to the streaming being on, though it is usually off when they are practicing.
If that is the case, then I think it's time for the coach to step in and assert strongly that SHE is the coach, and that Alex's efforts at coaching are misplaced and counterproductive. They should NOT be practicing together without suitable supervision.
And I also think that Alex Shibutani should NEVER teach or coach skating or any other subject. He has neither the skill nor the temperament for it.
