i confirm that the tradition in opera is different for tragedies... for comic opera, it's closer to what you would see in shakespeare... a recurring theme for instance is the "mistaken identity" like one can see in le nozze di figaro..... there is no drama there... the audience knows what's going on... and there is a happy ending for everyone

but
in tragedies, the women are depicted as subhuman.
Not true.
There are plenty of tragedies where the woman is the stronger or the more interesting character, as I mentioned before, and I cannot think of a single opera, where the woman is depicted as subhuman.
Even those who are not exactly the strong heroine types like e.g. Gilda, Desdemona, Butterfly, etc. are all very respectable human beings with pure characters, while the men are not.
Who does it make look bad or a lesser kind of human being then?
I mean, considering with what is happening in the world globally with the metoo movement, and looking at the victims of abuse in sport, i think it's time that coaches and choreographers, if not the young athletes themselves, take their responsibilities and stop using music with such connotations. What kind of message do you think it sends when a young girl skates to a piece from an opera in which one she will kill herself because she loves a man who abused her... and no.. she is not killing herself because of grief and despair... she is killing herself because she still loves him.... it just victimizes women.. there are plenty of other examples... read the libretti, read the research.. there is plenty. I have mentioned it loud and clear in this thread already.. not sure why people still think it's okay and admit not having read the scholars who are experts in the domain.
As if everybody didn't skate to anything but opera.
I don't remember a single Gilda or Desdemona. There are plenty of Butterflies, but usually skating just to Un Bel Di, Vedremo - very easy to identify with and something lots of women have experienced and will continue to experience in their lives without their human qualities being diminished in any way. That of course doesn't mean it's OK, but neither the aria nor the whole opera suggests it is.
Regarding other opera characters we often see on the ice:
Carmen - a strong, free-spirited and independent woman who is not afraid to say a resolute "NO" in the face of an armed man, prefering to die free than to do as he wants.
Tosca - or to be concrete, E lucevan le stelle - the aria Cavaradossi (a man) sings before he is going to be executed and after suffering cruel torturing. No way, a man mistreated in opera!
Are the ladies skating to this piece being disrespectful to the pain and suffering of a man, or it doesn't matter, exactly because he is a man and only women can be victimized?
Dalila - cunnigly seduces Samson to rob him of his strength after which he finds himself in the dungeon, blinded, turning a mill-wheel and later ridiculed and humiliated by the crowd, while Dalila goes on taunting him. Not a very nice treatment either.
If anything, I'd see Dalila as the problematic character, who makes women look bad, not Mimi, Gilda, Butterfly etc.
But then you have to choose whether you consider the aggressor of the story to be the strong character, while his/her victim is always weak, helpless and subhuman (and then the men get their fair share of such depiction as well), or whether the victim is the one to be admired, since they are the morally superior ones, and then use this interpretation consistently regardless of the gender of the character.
You cannot say that the depiction of e.g. Desdemona is misogynist beacause she gets killed, but the depiction of Dalila is misogynist too beacuse she is an "unplesant person" (not to be censored) and that might make the audience think poorly of women. Or do you actually think she is a good female role model?
By the same logic, is the depiction of the likes of Samson and Cavaradossi misandrist or are they depicted as subhuman?
I would have to look very hard to find female opera characters who are treated as badly as them, if there are any at all.
Or is the depiction of Duca or Otello misandrist, because they are potrayed as the bad guys?
Or both?
When Tosca kills Scarpia, her action seems totally justified since he more than deserved it.
But give me one example when it's the other way round, when a woman is killed by a man to a universal approval.
Then we have cases of women killing other women (Queen Elizabeth vs. Maria Stuarda, Adriana Lecouvrer vs. Princess de Bouillon etc.), men killing other men (too many to name)...
Generally, people get mistreated or killed in opera a lot, but it's definitely not only the women that suffer by the hand of men, or are depicted as subhuman, quite the opposite actually.