I do not care for Sasha. But I don't bash, and I don't post about "hating" the poor girl. I think very few people do.
As someone said, perhaps some of the negative emotions about a certain skater is feeling that they do not live up to their potential. I don't know, but it could be the case for some fans of Sasha.
And as someone else said, even the skaters I do not like, I can usually like something about them. I think Sasha has a lot of talent and gorgeous flexibility/positions. That doesn't erase the fact that her skating leaves me cold. But I certainly don't think that because I feel a certain way everyone else should also.
I'm glad that you clarified your initial, rather generalized post, and realize that people normally discuss all skaters here with respect.
Kasey