Actually, I am getting my wish. Because of the COP, especially its newer updates that restrict how a skater can gain level in spins (there's a limit to how many times a level feature can be used), more and more male skaters have to show more flexibility in order to boost spin levels. For instance, we're seeing a lot more male skaters do donut spins now.
But that's not going to stop the sport from picking up new fans. Because to an outsider or someone new to skating, a move like a Biellmann or a donut spin would not be associated with one gender or another. In the rest of society, there are certain gestures, movement, styles that are associated with one gender or another, the Biellmann, donut spins even arabesque spirals (which may be familiar from ballet, but ballet isn't mainstream any more either) just aren't part of most people's body language vocabulary. It would be a completely neutral move. The only thing that distinguishes them to a newbie is that they show flexibility. But so do many other skating moves men have always done, like Russian split jumps, sit spins, spread eagles, etc.
It may drive some existing fans away from skating, because they don't like to see change. But then, this would be a far slower and smaller change than adopting the COP. It will sneak up on people and they will get used to it. For all your sensitivity towards men doing flexibility moves, have you been noticing more men doing donut spins and objecting to it? You're already sucked in, it's far too late!