thanks for the link, jace
I'm not quite sure how serious you are right now, and I know that at least my kind of humor often doesn't come across in the written word, so just to be on the safe side: I was just kidding
Do people really take this s&m thing THAT literal? (maybe I'm not up to date on that discussion). Sure, those terms can always imply something, um, let's call it 'kinky'... but I also know that those terms are nowadays used in a less drastic fashion all the time. It's just a way to describe character traits and doesn't necessarily point to some extreme behavior or deep seeded emotional issues (neither of which have to be present even if you are actually into s&m. It's just something some people do *shrugs*)