I also think the coach can, or should be able to help (or direct the skater to someone who can help) ...
I btw, am I the only one who sees the comments of "hijacking a thread" as the same as "hijacking the tread. If that is to define not placing a post on topic, then talking about hijacking is hijacking in it's self.
Topics ebb and flow. The topics come up via the original topic. So to say they can't continue with the flow...???
It will come back around. expl above.
I wonder about that, I have seen a even more determined look on her face than any looks I saw at Olys. Just that season too. ??? But I could be wrong. ?????The only time Sasha seemed to fight was at the Olympics,
Don't worry about it, you're English is just fine. I knew what you were saying.Thanks for pointing out this. That's my English problem. Sometimes, I only know the sound of it but not sure the word.
Recently I watched a very early vid of her (2000) where she clearly suffered deeply when she did less well than expected. The sorrow on her face - not momentary but throughout the K&C - was heartbreaking in one so young. There is something more fragile about her than one would expect in a champion. She seems to have the kind of perfectionism that causes problems.
But I disagree that no one could help her with it. Over time and with help one does learn new habits.
On the other hand, what she *has* accomplished is astounding in view of her over-sensitivity, which for a competitive athlete amounts to a psychological handicap. And - since our weaknesses are often also the source of our gifts - we can be grateful for her oversensitivity and perfectionism since they contribute to such exquisite performances.
Don't worry about it, you're English is just fine. I knew what you were saying.
Dee
How do you know that about Sasha? Just curious.
Sasha, IMHO, is always looking for the quick fix, she wanted a coach who could snap his/her fingers and fix whatever it is that lies at the root of Sasha's problems. No one can do that. She just needed to be patient and actually listen to a coach for a while, but she wanted instant results. Her loss.
It may not have been Sasha and TT's clashing personalities but Sasha's mom. I think TT is a woman in control and the quicker you learn that the better off you'll be. I don't mean that harshly because I also think TT would bend over backwards for her skaters. As a coach, she is in control, no doubts in her mind of who's the boss. If she can tame Alexei, she can tame anyone. I think it was Ilia Kulik who commented about TT being a taskmaster. There may have been interferences that we know nothing about. All I know is I loved TT swan program for Sasha, it was wonderful.
Dee
Recently I watched a very early vid of her (2000) where she clearly suffered deeply when she did less well than expected. The sorrow on her face - not momentary but throughout the K&C - was heartbreaking in one so young. There is something more fragile about her than one would expect in a champion. She seems to have the kind of perfectionism that causes problems.
But I disagree that no one could help her with it. Over time and with help one does learn new habits.
On the other hand, what she *has* accomplished is astounding in view of her over-sensitivity, which for a competitive athlete amounts to a psychological handicap. And - since our weaknesses are often also the source of our gifts - we can be grateful for her oversensitivity and perfectionism since they contribute to such exquisite performances.
No--I think most of the problems, as the others have stated and will continue to restate is that Sasha just did not have that competitive fire.