Punishing female skaters for giving hickeys in a sport plagued by predatory adult men abusing boys and girls is ridiculous.
Acting like women can't be abusers or in a position of power over others in a sport plagued with female coaches severely abusing male and female skaters is also ridiculous, but I'm sure you ignore that. Just ask the young girl beaten by Julia Lavrenchuk or those who trained under Dalilah Sappenfield.
If laws were broken, where is the police?
I don't know, but - OMG - neither do you. Funny how that works.
We have reports of what was said to investigators
We actually don't, we have very conflicting statements from all parties involved. What we do know however is that his hickey was seen by a coach who then reported this to the federation. That's where it started.
and it is obvious it wasn't the girls who ratted everyone out.
No of course not, if I was drinking, knowing it would lead to a suspension if I'm caught, I wouldn't rat myself out either. And clearly, he wasn't the one who started the investigation either.
They all should have gotten only reprimands.
No, they shouldn't. Regardless of what you think of the sexual harassment part of this story, every single skater who drank during training camps or in the dormitories of the National Training base has been suspended, so why should Young and Haein be spared? Even Olympic champions were suspended. A skater who was simply in the same car as a drunk driver was suspended for 2 months - He hadn't even drunk any alcohol himself. A coach, who was not even present during the incident, was suspended for a year "for lack of oversight".
A teenage girl being foolish in romance, OMG, throw her in prison.
A lot of teenagers have done "foolish" things that ruined someone else's life forever - Stupidity doesn't protect you from the consequences of your actions. I too was 18 and 19 not too long ago, and you know what I never did? Got with a 14-year-old, put myself in a situation where my relationship was skirting the lines of legality, and kept on pursuing them after everyone around me warned me. Maybe Haein is particularly immature, but she herself acknowledges that it was her responsibility as the adult in the relationship (what a weird thing to say about a romantic relationship) to not give him a hickey.
The misogyny in figure skating federations is pathetic.
Interesting how you are ignoring that KSU has suspended many men for rule transgressions in the past. Weird how a male skater bringing someone else medicine was suspended. Weird how Lee Seung-hoon and Lim Hyo-jun (who had to go all the way to the Supreme Court to get his overturned) were given suspensions. KSU is not Skate Canada or USFS, they have handed out many suspensions to "minor" and "major" digressions over the last decade or so, most of them to men, many of them very successful.
Either way, this discussion is pointless, because you have your opinion and you will have your opinion. I have half a mind to ask the mods to delete this whole discussion, because it's not going to lead to any goal. It's just cluttering up this thread.